Pink Matter

The Boys Love it, The Girls have a Love/Hate Relationship with it

I always believe on a woman's temple, gave her the right to choose but never want them to abort. Yet some girls out there were never given a chance to make that decision. Some were forced, some just happened. In some cases, its the guys who never had the luxury to make the decision as well. The decisions that we make are the ones that tells mostly about the relationship that we are having. Has it all been just lust or is it love? I have seen people cry right in front of my eyes, tears and anger raging to me, shouting how they were forced into it, how they didn't want all of this to happen, how they wish they didn't fall to their trap.

I felt the pain from both genders, how they felt embarrassed, how their dignity was just taken away just like that and the worst case of them all, they dont even know if they had gotten their partners or are they pregnant. All i could give them was words of comfort, a hug. I can never know the pain they are suffering from, seeing them stutter being traumautised by the situation, i could just be there for them. Some space if they insist on having and of course politely ask them to visit or bring their partner to the doctor to check. I have a friend who has went through all of it giving people hope in life, making sure that everything is going to be alright because she knows how they feel, i dont. Yet my friend told me, If she/he trust you so much to tell you what has happen, Don't ever think about leaving them alone. Stay by them, Guide them.

So My Message To All The Victims Out There,

To the people who were forced and who hasn't out there, do it now. To the people who fear their love has all just been a playground for lust, Leave. I always try to emphasis my friends to know where they stand in their partners life or even friends. Hell it could be exes who places themselves as friends and they could just bring you to a quiet place and pull you to it with no one hearing you cry for help. Leave this people and never contact them again, there are always people out there who could give you love and friendship far more better then what they could achieve.

I am not stopping anyone in a relationship to not have sex but if you do, always make sure your partners allow you to. Whatever happens to them, stick by their side, comfort them, always be there form them because the thought of abortion can kill a woman's mind and will stick by them forever. So whoever has a friend who is a victim, stick by them always. I know a few of my friends who are victims are still traumatised never to forget what happen even tho they are trying their best. Knowing that other people wouldnt understand their pain and suffering so they come to you instead. Give them the comfort they need. Dont ever leave them alone.

For the people who are in a relationship now,
Tell me

Has Your Relationship All Been About Love
Or
Has It Been The Pleasure Over The Matter